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In our day-to-day life, we tend to read lots of motivational quotes or get to hear lots of inspirational speeches from spiritual leaders, that with a positive mind you can bring about far-reaching changes in your life.

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‘The secret of success lies in putting your heart, mind and soul into even the smallest of the act’
– Swami Vivekananda.

In our day-to-day life, we tend to read lots of motivational quotes or get to hear lots of inspirational speeches from spiritual leaders, that with a positive mind you can bring about far-reaching changes in your life.

Unequivocally that sounds damn easy. Doesn’t it? Yet many of us read it and forget or lack the accurate methodology to apply this in our lives.

The first thought that comes in our mind is that we cannot do it, it is impossible, or we would not be able to do and lot more negative connotations that become our fixed thoughts and acts as a mental blockage.

Do you even know what incredible role your thoughts play in your life?

Yes, you heard that right; our thoughts work just like a magnet, which attracts positive and negative aura in our lives.

It happens that most of the time we think about what if I cannot do it, or what if I fail, that becomes a chain of negative thoughts, which gets imbibed in our thought process.

Your thoughts are the one which makes you an impeccable being of a kind which depends upon how you allow manifesting them.

Here are the secrets which I would like to share: everything starts with BELIEVING, so start believing from now!

Happy life

From my own life experience, I have figured out FIVE hacks which ensures that I am on the right track.

1. ONE TASK AT A TIME

It all starts with a flexible mindset and doing things one at a time, you don’t have to be a multi-tasker.

It is a powerful strategy to make it a habit of slowing down and stop rushing, which not only makes you more productive but also increases your concentration level.

Staying focused on one thing at a time puts less pressure on your mind, makes you feel less burden and aids in the accomplishment of the task with a much peaceful mind.

2. PRACTICE GRATITUDE

This kind of skill practice will increase self-awareness and empowerment. Train your mind to modify these instinctual negative thoughts into a positive outlook that will be more innovative and helpful in attaining life goals.

Every day before going to bed write down at least five things you are grateful for, which would foster personal well-being and flow of happiness.

My outlook for life transformed, after going through the book The Power by Rhonda Byrne that we can bring change in our thoughts by just practising gratitude. It relies on the simple rule that if you feel gratitude for little things, then you would receive it as well.

To overcome the feeling of fear, failure or lifting your mood if you feel low, or lonely can be done by practising this philosophy.

Not only this but having the feeling of gratitude also improve your vision of self-worth and helps in building a strong relationship with others.

Above all, if you train your mind to transform your negative thoughts, and behaviour to have an optimistic perception, then it would also enhance one’s mental well-being.

3. ENCOURAGEMENT IS THE KEY

Encourage others if you want to succeed in your life. To have an abundance mindset is to wish success and progress not only for yourself but for others as well.

If you can develop that kind of mentality, by uplifting others gives you the feeling of oneness, which is far greater than material accomplishments.

Recognising collective success, rather than self-success frees your mind from such limitations of competitiveness, jealousy and grudges, rather it promotes the feeling of shared happiness.

4. ATTRACT RIGHT VIBES

It is a belief that you get known by the company you keep. Yes, that’s true. Your circle or company reflects who you are.

If you place yourself with people who are having an indifferent attitude, or who ridicule your efforts or fail to acknowledge or motivate you, then it will drag you down.

Your mind attracts the energies that you have. I agree that you cannot entirely get rid of such people or situations, but you can alter your reaction to those circumstances.

Just remember that every situation doesn’t deserve a reaction, learn from it and move on, the things which aren’t in your control, it is better to let them go. Our surroundings are a dominant factor in our thought process, observe your environment well, even at the workplace or at home.

5. SPEND TIME AND MONEY JUDICIOUSLY

Be a realistic person! I know that may sound a bit clichéd.

But that’s the truth, here I don’t necessarily mean spending judiciously on material luxuries.

As we know modern life is fast-paced, all have become so money-minded that we often correlate happiness with material benefits.

‘Luxuries are not our path to happiness’. It may be satisfactory for a while, but that fades away with time.

Try to spend money on social interactions, like going out on a brunch or dine out with family and friends; which may not sound too fancy, but these are the priceless expenditures, which money definitely can’t buy.

By doing this, you feel less anxious, less depressed or isolated. Spend on happiness that lasts longer, rather on material things which come with an expiry date.

Instead of spending your money on branded clothes, Calvin Klein perfumes or Gucci bags, you only decide rationally like becoming a member of a health club, spa or yoga; which would help you to attain peace and wellness in your life.

SUMMING IT UP!

In reality, we cannot affirm every situation with positivity but believing in the philosophy of abundance and attraction, works with the theory that you get what you ask for.

Insecurities are a component of our lives, but never let it overpower us. If our mind is a magnet, then our thoughts are the signals.

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Accepting your negative thoughts and then transforming them by spiritual ways of meditation or yoga is the key. You cannot escape or ignore its existence.

As you are the architect of your life, never underestimate the power of your mind. A happy and healthy mind crafts a successful life, and to equate success with happiness starts spending on experiences.

—By Jyotsna Dey

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Who is Kaziah Liz Mejo, the 19-year-old who won Miss Universe India 2026?

Kerala’s 19-year-old law student and model Kaziah Liz Mejo has won Miss Universe India 2026. She will represent India at the Miss Universe pageant in Puerto Rico.

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Kaziah Liz Mejo has been crowned Miss Universe India 2026, becoming the first Keralite to win the national title. The 19-year-old law student and model from Mavelikkara, Kerala, won the crown at the pageant finale in Jaipur on Sunday.

With the victory, Kaziah Liz Mejo will now represent India at the 75th Miss Universe pageant, which is scheduled to take place in Puerto Rico in November. She emerged as the winner after competing against 52 other finalists. 

Who is Kaziah Liz Mejo?

Kaziah Liz Mejo is a law student and model from Mavelikkara, Kerala. Although her latest victory has brought her national attention, she already had experience in beauty pageants before winning the Miss Universe India 2026 crown.

She won the Miss Teen Diva 2024 title at the age of 17. In 2025, she represented India at Miss Teen International and finished as the first runner-up. Earlier in 2026, she also won the Miss Universe Kerala title and became the youngest state titleholder.

Her latest achievement has added another milestone to her pageant journey, as she is the first Keralite to win the Miss Universe India title.

Kaziah Liz Mejo grew up in Abu Dhabi

Born in 2007, Kaziah spent her childhood in Abu Dhabi, UAE. She studied at Emirates National School, St Joseph’s School and Abu Dhabi Indian School.

She is currently pursuing law alongside her modelling career. Her interests also extend beyond academics and pageantry.

According to information cited from the Miss Teen Diva website, Kaziah has trained in classical dance for 12 years. She also sings and plays the drums and violin. She has explored public speaking and acting as well.

Kaziah also made her acting debut with the Malayalam film Shylock.

Kaziah Liz Mejo’s pageant journey

Kaziah’s Miss Universe India 2026 victory follows several achievements in the pageant circuit. After winning Miss Teen Diva 2024, she went on to represent India at Miss Teen International 2025, where she finished as the first runner-up.

Her 2026 journey continued with the Miss Universe Kerala title before she competed at the national pageant in Jaipur.

The finale jury included former Miss Universe Sushmita Sen, who led the panel. Former Miss Universe India winners Urvashi Rautela and Celina Jaitley were also part of the judging panel.

Who were the runners-up?

Vaishnavi Gannesh from Tamil Nadu was named the first runner-up and also won the Miss International India 2026 title, while Gujarat’s Anushri Satavlekar finished as the second runner-up. 

Kaziah was crowned by last year’s Miss Universe India winner Manika Vishwakarma, who had represented India at the international pageant.

What is next for Kaziah Liz Mejo?

Kaziah Liz Mejo’s next major assignment will be the 75th Miss Universe pageant in Puerto Rico. She is scheduled to travel there in November to represent India at the international competition.

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15 August 2026 wishes to share patriotic messages with friends and family 

Looking for Independence Day wishes? Here are 10 patriotic messages to share with friends, family and loved ones on August 15.

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15 August Independence Day patriotic wishes and messages

India celebrates Independence Day every year on August 15. The occasion is marked by remembering the struggles and sacrifices of those who fought for the country’s freedom.

On this special day, people often exchange wishes through social media, WhatsApp and text messages. If you are looking for patriotic messages to send to friends and family, here are 10 options for Independence Day 2026.

10 patriotic Independence Day wishes for August 15

1. A patriotic message

The tricolour is our pride and India is our identity. Remembering the heroes of the nation, wishing you and your family a very happy Independence Day. Jai Hind!

2. Remembering the freedom fighters

A heartfelt salute to the brave souls who sacrificed their lives for India’s freedom. Wishing everyone a very happy Independence Day.

3. Independence Day message for friends

On the festival of freedom, may the spirit of patriotism always remain in our hearts and bring smiles to our faces. Wishing all my friends a very happy August 15. Jai Hind, Jai Bharat!

4. Independence Day wish for family

Salute to our motherland, India, which fills us with pride. Wishing my entire family a very happy Independence Day.

5. A message celebrating the tricolour

The tricolour flying high in the sky represents unity, courage and honour. Let us always uphold its dignity. Happy Independence Day!

6. Message for children and youth

Freedom is not just a right but also a great responsibility. Let us contribute towards making our country better. Wishing you a very happy Independence Day.

7. A message dedicated to soldiers

A salute to the brave soldiers guarding the nation’s borders, because of whom we feel safe in our homes. Salute to all the courageous soldiers and best wishes on Independence Day.

8. A heartfelt Independence Day message

The fragrance of our soil, the pride of the tricolour and respect for our motherland are part of our identity. Wishing you and your family a very happy Independence Day.

9. Independence Day message for social media

Say with pride that we are Indians; the tricolour is our identity. May the spirit of patriotism always remain alive in our hearts. Happy Independence Day! Jai Hind!

10. Wish for India’s bright future

On this Independence Day, let us pledge to always uphold the unity, integrity and honour of our country. Wishing everyone a very happy August 15.

Independence Day is also an occasion to reflect on our responsibilities towards the nation. The day can inspire us to learn from the struggles of the freedom fighters and contribute to the country’s progress.

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Happy Friendship Day 2026: Heartwarming quotes and wishes to share on WhatsApp and Instagram

Friendship Day 2026 is being celebrated on August 2. Explore its history, significance and the best Friendship Day quotes and wishes to share on WhatsApp and Instagram.

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Friendship Day 2026 is being celebrated on Sunday, August 2, across India and several other countries where the occasion falls on the first Sunday of August. The day recognises the importance of friendship and celebrates the companionship, trust and support that friends bring into people’s lives.

As people mark the occasion, many are exchanging heartfelt wishes, messages and quotes on social media platforms such as WhatsApp and Instagram to express gratitude for their closest friends.

History and significance of Friendship Day

The idea of Friendship Day was first introduced in 1930 by Joyce Hall, the founder of Hallmark Cards. The concept was to dedicate August 2 as a day for people to appreciate their friends by sending greeting cards. Although the tradition initially became popular, its appeal later declined in the United States.

The movement gained wider recognition in 1958 when Dr Ramon Artemio Bracho proposed celebrating friendship during a gathering in Puerto Pinasco, Paraguay. His initiative resulted in the formation of the World Friendship Crusade, an organisation that promotes peace and friendship among people worldwide.

In 2011, the United Nations officially declared July 30 as the International Day of Friendship. However, countries such as India continue to celebrate Friendship Day on the first Sunday of August.

Best Friendship Day 2026 quotes and wishes

Here are some messages and quotes that can be shared with friends on WhatsApp or posted as Instagram status updates:

“Real friendship isn’t about being inseparable, but about being separated and nothing changes. Happy Friendship Day!”

“Friends are the family we choose. Happy Friendship Day!”

“Celebrating the people who make my world warmer. Happy Friendship Day!”

“Friendship isn’t about who you’ve known the longest. It’s about who stayed. Happy Friendship Day!”

“Happy Friendship Day! Here’s to the laughs, the memories, and the unbreakable bond we share.”

“Wishing you a Friendship Day filled with love, laughter, and lasting memories.”

“Cheers to all the crazy, wonderful times we’ve shared. Happy Friendship Day!”

“True friends are never apart, maybe in distance but never in heart. Happy Friendship Day!”

“Friendship is the greatest gift of life. Happy Friendship Day to all my dear friends!”

“To the one who has seen me at my best and stood by me at my worst—thank you for being my constant anchor. Happy Friendship Day 2026!”

“Distance might keep us apart, but real friendship doesn’t care about miles. Cheers to another year of shared memories and unconditional support. Happy Friendship Day!”

“Life is unpredictable, but having a friend like you makes every hurdle easier to cross. Happy Friendship Day!”

“Happy Friendship Day! Thanks for knowing all my weirdest habits and still choosing to be seen with me in public.”

“Happy Friendship Day! Here’s to another year of laughing at our own jokes and keeping each other’s embarrassing secrets!”

“Grateful for the ones who make quiet moments comfortable and crazy moments unforgettable. Happy Friendship Day!”

As people celebrate Friendship Day 2026, these heartfelt wishes continue to remind everyone of the enduring value of genuine friendships and the memories shared with those who stand by us through every stage of life.

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