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Five rules to be successful with happy life

In our day-to-day life, we tend to read lots of motivational quotes or get to hear lots of inspirational speeches from spiritual leaders, that with a positive mind you can bring about far-reaching changes in your life.

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‘The secret of success lies in putting your heart, mind and soul into even the smallest of the act’
– Swami Vivekananda.

In our day-to-day life, we tend to read lots of motivational quotes or get to hear lots of inspirational speeches from spiritual leaders, that with a positive mind you can bring about far-reaching changes in your life.

Unequivocally that sounds damn easy. Doesn’t it? Yet many of us read it and forget or lack the accurate methodology to apply this in our lives.

The first thought that comes in our mind is that we cannot do it, it is impossible, or we would not be able to do and lot more negative connotations that become our fixed thoughts and acts as a mental blockage.

Do you even know what incredible role your thoughts play in your life?

Yes, you heard that right; our thoughts work just like a magnet, which attracts positive and negative aura in our lives.

It happens that most of the time we think about what if I cannot do it, or what if I fail, that becomes a chain of negative thoughts, which gets imbibed in our thought process.

Your thoughts are the one which makes you an impeccable being of a kind which depends upon how you allow manifesting them.

Here are the secrets which I would like to share: everything starts with BELIEVING, so start believing from now!

Happy life

From my own life experience, I have figured out FIVE hacks which ensures that I am on the right track.

1. ONE TASK AT A TIME

It all starts with a flexible mindset and doing things one at a time, you don’t have to be a multi-tasker.

It is a powerful strategy to make it a habit of slowing down and stop rushing, which not only makes you more productive but also increases your concentration level.

Staying focused on one thing at a time puts less pressure on your mind, makes you feel less burden and aids in the accomplishment of the task with a much peaceful mind.

2. PRACTICE GRATITUDE

This kind of skill practice will increase self-awareness and empowerment. Train your mind to modify these instinctual negative thoughts into a positive outlook that will be more innovative and helpful in attaining life goals.

Every day before going to bed write down at least five things you are grateful for, which would foster personal well-being and flow of happiness.

My outlook for life transformed, after going through the book The Power by Rhonda Byrne that we can bring change in our thoughts by just practising gratitude. It relies on the simple rule that if you feel gratitude for little things, then you would receive it as well.

To overcome the feeling of fear, failure or lifting your mood if you feel low, or lonely can be done by practising this philosophy.

Not only this but having the feeling of gratitude also improve your vision of self-worth and helps in building a strong relationship with others.

Above all, if you train your mind to transform your negative thoughts, and behaviour to have an optimistic perception, then it would also enhance one’s mental well-being.

3. ENCOURAGEMENT IS THE KEY

Encourage others if you want to succeed in your life. To have an abundance mindset is to wish success and progress not only for yourself but for others as well.

If you can develop that kind of mentality, by uplifting others gives you the feeling of oneness, which is far greater than material accomplishments.

Recognising collective success, rather than self-success frees your mind from such limitations of competitiveness, jealousy and grudges, rather it promotes the feeling of shared happiness.

4. ATTRACT RIGHT VIBES

It is a belief that you get known by the company you keep. Yes, that’s true. Your circle or company reflects who you are.

If you place yourself with people who are having an indifferent attitude, or who ridicule your efforts or fail to acknowledge or motivate you, then it will drag you down.

Your mind attracts the energies that you have. I agree that you cannot entirely get rid of such people or situations, but you can alter your reaction to those circumstances.

Just remember that every situation doesn’t deserve a reaction, learn from it and move on, the things which aren’t in your control, it is better to let them go. Our surroundings are a dominant factor in our thought process, observe your environment well, even at the workplace or at home.

5. SPEND TIME AND MONEY JUDICIOUSLY

Be a realistic person! I know that may sound a bit clichéd.

But that’s the truth, here I don’t necessarily mean spending judiciously on material luxuries.

As we know modern life is fast-paced, all have become so money-minded that we often correlate happiness with material benefits.

‘Luxuries are not our path to happiness’. It may be satisfactory for a while, but that fades away with time.

Try to spend money on social interactions, like going out on a brunch or dine out with family and friends; which may not sound too fancy, but these are the priceless expenditures, which money definitely can’t buy.

By doing this, you feel less anxious, less depressed or isolated. Spend on happiness that lasts longer, rather on material things which come with an expiry date.

Instead of spending your money on branded clothes, Calvin Klein perfumes or Gucci bags, you only decide rationally like becoming a member of a health club, spa or yoga; which would help you to attain peace and wellness in your life.

SUMMING IT UP!

In reality, we cannot affirm every situation with positivity but believing in the philosophy of abundance and attraction, works with the theory that you get what you ask for.

Insecurities are a component of our lives, but never let it overpower us. If our mind is a magnet, then our thoughts are the signals.

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Accepting your negative thoughts and then transforming them by spiritual ways of meditation or yoga is the key. You cannot escape or ignore its existence.

As you are the architect of your life, never underestimate the power of your mind. A happy and healthy mind crafts a successful life, and to equate success with happiness starts spending on experiences.

—By Jyotsna Dey

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Valentine’s Day 2026: Wishes, messages and quotes to share with your loved one

Valentine’s Day 2026 is here. Here are heartfelt wishes, romantic messages and timeless quotes to share with your loved one on February 14.

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Valentine's Day 2026: wishes, messages and quotes to share with your loved one

Valentine’s Day 2026 is here, bringing with it a celebration of love, affection and meaningful connections. Observed every year on February 14, the day offers couples an opportunity to express their emotions and strengthen their bond.

The week leading up to the day, popularly known as Valentine’s Week, is marked by the exchange of roses, chocolates, teddy bears and small tokens of affection. For many, these gestures are simple yet heartfelt ways to convey feelings that often go unspoken.

While some people plan elaborate surprises, candlelight dinners or thoughtful gifts, others prefer quiet moments spent together. Whether grand or intimate, the essence of the day lies in celebrating companionship and emotional closeness.

Valentine’s Day is also seen as a time to refresh relationships, revisit shared memories and reaffirm promises of togetherness. From handwritten notes to meaningful conversations, even small gestures can leave a lasting impact.

Valentine’s Day wishes and greetings

  • My love for you cannot be measured. It is as vast as the sky and as endless as the universe.
  • I never liked Valentine’s Day until I met you. You showed me what it truly means.
  • On this Valentine’s Day, I promise to stand by you forever so you never face any obstacle alone. Happy Valentine’s Day.
  • Let us love each other unconditionally, truly, madly and deeply.
  • Happy Valentine’s Day to the person who taught me the real meaning of love.
  • I love you wholeheartedly, and you matter to me the most.
  • Warm wishes on Valentine’s Day to everyone. Love is the most beautiful thing in the world.
  • My favourite place is your heart, where I want to build my home forever.

Valentine’s Day quotes

  • “Everything is clearer when you’re in love.” — John Lennon
  • “Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.” — Robert A. Heinlein
  • “I never want to stop making memories with you.” — Pierre Jeanty
  • “To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides.” — David Viscott
  • “Love is something eternal; the aspect may change, but not the essence.” — Vincent van Gogh

Valentine’s Day remains a reminder that love, in its many forms, deserves to be expressed and celebrated — not just on February 14, but every day of the year.

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Happy Makar Sankranti 2026 wishes shared as festival of faith, positivity and new beginnings

Makar Sankranti 2026 marks a new beginning as devotees observe holy rituals and exchange heartfelt wishes across India.

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Happy Makar Sankranti 2026

Makar Sankranti is being celebrated across India with great enthusiasm on Wednesday, January 14, 2026, marking one of the most significant festivals in the Hindu calendar. Observed as the day when the Sun begins its northward journey, the festival symbolises new beginnings, positive energy and prosperity.

The day holds deep religious importance. Devotees across the country take a holy dip in sacred rivers and perform charity and donations, practices believed to bring spiritual merit and peace. Sun worship is also an integral part of the festival, with many offering prayers at sunrise, seeking happiness, good health and success.

Beyond its spiritual meaning, Makar Sankranti is also known for its vibrant cultural celebrations. From rooftops filled with colourful kites to homes preparing traditional sweets made of jaggery and sesame, the festival brings together families and communities in celebration.

Festival of harvest, harmony and hope

Makar Sankranti is widely regarded as a harvest festival, especially in agrarian regions, marking the arrival of fresh crops and renewed hope. The exchange of sweets made from sesame seeds and jaggery reflects the message of sweetness in relationships and warmth in communication.

As part of the celebrations, people are sharing thoughtful wishes and messages with friends, family and loved ones, expressing hopes for happiness, success and togetherness in the year ahead. Many messages highlight themes such as strong bonds, rising ambitions and uncut kites of success, drawing inspiration from the festival’s symbols.

A celebration that unites tradition and joy

With blue skies dotted with flying kites and households resonating with festive prayers, Makar Sankranti continues to stand as a reminder of tradition, gratitude and renewal. The festival encourages people to let go of negativity and move forward with optimism, making it one of the most cherished occasions of the year.

As celebrations unfold nationwide, exchanging warm wishes remains a simple yet meaningful way to make the festival special, reinforcing bonds and spreading joy.

Happy Makar Sankranti 2026 Wishes in English

1.
 The sweetness of jaggery, the aroma of sesame,
Colorful kites in the sky and love in every heart.
Wishing you and your family a joyful
and wonderful Makar Sankranti!

Happy Makar Sankranti 2026

2.
 If sesame is us and jaggery is you,
If sweets are us and sweetness is you,
As the first festival of the year begins,
May Makar Sankranti bring happiness to you.

Warm wishes on Makar Sankranti

3.
 Kites filling the sky,
Sweetness of jaggery all around,
May happiness find a permanent place
in your life this Makar Sankranti.

Happy Makar Sankranti 2026

4.
 With sesame laddoos and peanuts in abundance,
Wishing you a joyful and blessed
festival of Makar Sankranti.

5.
 Blue skies, colorful kites,
and joy in every direction.
Celebrate Makar Sankranti
with your loved ones.

Heartfelt Makar Sankranti wishes

6.
 May your kite never be cut,
May your string always stay strong.
May happiness surround your home,
and success follow you all year long.
May Makar Sankranti bring prosperity
and joy into your life.

Happy Makar Sankranti 2026

7.
 Temple bells, sacred prayers,
The golden glow of the rising sun by the river.
May happiness bloom in your life,
Wishing you a blessed Makar Sankranti.

8.
 The first harvest of the year
and the first happiness too.
Wishing you a joyful
Makar Sankranti.

9.
 May the kite of your success
always soar high in the sky.
Happy Makar Sankranti!

10.
 May your flight be high and your string be strong,
May happiness echo around you all along.
May your success rise so high,
That no one can ever bring it down.

Warm wishes on Makar Sankranti

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Happy Lohri 2026 Wishes, quotes and messages to share with family and friends

Lohri 2026 will be celebrated on January 13. Here are the date, timing, significance and heartfelt wishes to share with loved ones.

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Happy Lohri 2026

Lohri, one of north India’s most vibrant festivals, marks the end of the winter season and the arrival of the harvest period. Known for its colourful traditions, bonfires, folk dances and seasonal delicacies, the festival brings warmth and togetherness during the cold days of January.

In 2026, Lohri will be celebrated in mid-January, continuing the tradition of welcoming prosperity, happiness and new beginnings.

When is Lohri in 2026

According to the Druk Panchang, Lohri will be observed on Tuesday, January 13, 2026.

The auspicious time for Lohri Sankranti will begin at 03:13 pm on January 14, while Makar Sankranti will be celebrated on Wednesday, January 14, 2026.

Lohri holds cultural significance, especially in Punjab, Haryana and parts of north India, where families gather around bonfires, offer prayers, and celebrate with music, dance and traditional food such as jaggery, groundnuts and popcorn.

Happy Lohri 2026 Wishes, messages and quotes

Here are some heartfelt wishes and messages to share with family, friends and loved ones on Lohri:

  • Wishing you a Lohri filled with joy, happiness and prosperity. May this festival bring warmth and light to your life.
  • May the bonfire of Lohri burn away all your worries and bring you warmth, joy and success. Happy Lohri.
  • On this day of Lohri, may the divine festival fill your life with prosperity and growth. Happy Lohri to you and your loved ones.
  • As the fire of Lohri flourishes, may all your sorrows and troubles vanish with it. Happy Lohri to you and your family.
  • May the warmth of the Lohri bonfire fill your home with happiness and love. Happy Lohri.
  • Wishing you a harvest of joy and prosperity this Lohri. May your days be filled with happiness.
  • On this auspicious occasion of Lohri, may all your dreams come true.
  • Let the festival of Lohri bring you endless joy and abundance. Wishing you and your family a very Happy Lohri.
  • May the Lohri fire burn away sadness and bring warmth, joy and happiness into your life.
  • Sending you warm wishes for this festive season of Lohri. May it bring prosperity and success.
  • This Lohri, may the sweetness of jaggery and the warmth of groundnuts add happiness to your life.
  • May the festival of harvest fill your life with abundance and prosperity. Happy Lohri.

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