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Reflections on The Supreme Court Liberating Gays And Lesbians

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Reflections on The Supreme Court Liberating Gays And Lesbians

By Saeed Naqvi

Those travelling to England for the first time in the sixties were recipients of a tract from the British High Commission listing the dos and don’ts. Among the don’ts was a paragraph in italics:

“A single woman may invite you to her apartment for tea and refreshments. This must not be taken for license.” That the tract did not warn me about the risks of accepting gentlemen’s hospitality was presumably because Victorianism had not quite faded in the sixties.

In those days the androgynous appeal of Twiggy, the modelling sensation was the big draw. The fashion industry had marketed flat chested girls, looking like boys, as the new sex symbols. The trend had been initiated by the haute couture in Paris. Balenciaga and Givenchy were in love and presumably had copious sex too, as did others in that business. You were a square if you were straight.

If men were going to be so unidirectional, women too were beginning to experience things they called freedom. All generalization are hopelessly inadequate. The freedom was in fact a device to protect self esteem, increasingly bruised by the casual indifference of men. Women’s emancipation clashed headlong with the “femininity” which poetry, thumri, folk songs, love letters had burdened our aesthetics with for centuries.

Motia hiraye gayee, Rama

Kaise dhoon dhoon, (search)

Dhoondat, dhoondat,

baorae gayee, Rama”

(I have lost the pearl, my father’s gift,

O’Rama, how to find it?

I am going mad searching for it.)

The pearl has been lost in a moment of passionate ecstasy.

:Hiraye aanyein kangana

Gaunwaye aanyein jobana

nadia naarey”

“Defiantly, she surrendered her virginity by the riverside. In the sexual ecstasy, she lost her gold bangle.”

This raw ecstasy in the two folk songs is not the stuff of sex today – when urban emancipation conditions sexual behaviour.

Behari Lal Chaube (1595-1663), describes a “devar” husband’s younger brother, a constant in erotic Hindi poetry, throwing a flower playfully on his sister in law.

“Goosebumps of joy appeared on her limbs,

Mistaking them for insect bites

I hastened with a jar of ointment.

But when she smiled I

guessed the truth

and stayed my hand.”

Even Ghalib (1797-1869) puts his urbanity aside in her presence.

“Is nazakat ka bura ho, woh

bhaley hain bhi to kya

Haath aayein to unhein haath

lagaye na baney”

(Though wonderful she be, I hesitate to touch her, such is the delicacy of her form)

Even Josh Malihabadi (1894-1982), proud of his several love affairs, is mesmerized by her shyness.

(Haya ki shama jal uthi

harim e dil rubai mein

Ghumaya sar jhuka ke

der tak kangan kalai mein.”

(When I asked for her hand, her eyes were like shyness illuminated.

For a long while she played with her bangles.”

Raghupati Sahai Firaq Gorakhpuri (1896-1982), describes:

“Woh hai ghuncha, ghuncha jo dekhiye

Woh hai choomiye to dahan dahan.”

(Look at her, and she is a half open bud.

Kiss her and she is all mouth.)

John Keats in his letters could address Fanny Brawne as “My dear girl”. Try the patronizing tone, however steeped in lyric, on the professional MBA you are trying to date and she will hurl a paperweight at you.

Reflections on The Supreme Court Liberating Gays And LesbiansMake allowance for some exaggeration either way, and the truth remains incontrovertible: gender equality has wrenched man-woman equation from romantic traditions which admittedly engendered inequality. When T.S. Elliot’s single woman, after her one night stand,

“paces about her room again, alone

She smoothes her hair with automatic hands,

And puts a record on the gramophone.”

The boredom of it is palpable.

The emancipated, professional woman is light years away from the village belle who lost her pearl during sex. In asserting her gender equality does the contemporary woman cause her partner to feel inadequate and begin to withdraw from women for emotional security? In brief, the belle who lost the pearl is more relaxing; the emancipated woman, more challenging.

Freudian complexities which attend evolving man-woman equation causes some of the youth of both sexes to find greater comfort, relaxation and friendship in seeking out persons of their own sex for all purpose relationships. The withdrawal of men from the market causes women to move in the other direction.

This sociologically conditioned augmentation of the LGBT community is only a fraction of those who are gay or heterosexual for hormonal reasons.

Social reasons for this increase will cause the stream to join the torrent, a function of many streams, which could lead to unsettling demographic changes. That is possibly the most frightening consequence of the issue the Supreme Court addressed in a historic judgement.

The judgement brings out of the purdah that which was hidden. Does a whole body of poetry on that which was behind the curtain become kosher too? It is great poetry from Chaucer and Iqbal to Jaffar Zatalli, Chirkeen, Rafi Ahmad Khan, Mahshar Enayati, Abba Changezi, Uriyan Hyderabadi. Do we have their Lordship’s permission to bring it all out in the open?

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BPSC aspirants protest: Rahul Gandhi slams NDA govt after Bihar Police brutality on students

Videos of the police’s actions, including some depicting officers pursuing and striking protesters, including women, circulated widely on social media.

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Leader of Opposition in the Lok Sabha Rahul Gandhi on Thursday slammed the NDA government in Bihar after police resorted to a lathi-charge on Bihar Public Service Commission (BPSC) aspirants protesting in Patna over the alleged leak of a question paper of the December 13 combined preliminary exam conducted by the Commission and demanding re-examination.

“I had said in Parliament that in the same way that Eklavya’s thumb was cut off, in the same way the thumbs of the youth are cut off by leaking the papers,” Gandhi said in a post on X.

Sharing the video of the police brutality, Gandhi said, “This is extremely shameful and reprehensible. Playing with the future of students will not be tolerated. We are with them and will fight to get them justice.”

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“The latest example of this is Bihar. BPSC candidates are raising their voices against the paper leak and demanding cancellation of the exam. But to hide its failure, the NDA government is instead resorting to lathi-charge on the students,” the Congress leader said.

Chaos ensued during a protest on Wednesday regarding the alleged leak of a question paper for the December 13 combined preliminary exam organized by the BPSC, leading to a baton charge by state police on job aspirants. Protesters alleged that multiple participants were injured during the police action, a claim that was refuted by a senior police officer.

The Congress party condemned the police’s treatment of the job aspirants, while Independent MP from Purnea, Rajesh Ranjan, also known as Pappu Yadav, threatened a Bihar bandh on January 1, 2025, if the December 13 exam is not canceled.

A group of demonstrators attempted to march towards the BPSC office to voice their demands, resulting in a confrontation with police after their passage was obstructed.

According to Patna Senior Superintendent of Police (SSP) Rajeev Mishra, a gathering of protestors, including job aspirants, assembled near the BPSC office on Bailey Road in the afternoon, seeking to advance towards the office. Despite being stopped by police, some protesters managed to reach the BPSC office, disrupting traffic flow.

The SSP stated, “Despite repeated requests from security personnel, they refused to clear the roadway. This is a restricted area where protests are not permitted. As a result, mild force, including a baton charge, was utilized to disperse the crowd.” Following the incident, police filed a case against the protesters.

While protesters contended that many job seekers were injured during the baton charge, the SSP maintained that no injuries were reported.

“As far as we know, no protester suffered any injuries. Mild force was applied to disperse the crowd,” he affirmed.

Videos of the police’s actions, including some depicting officers pursuing and striking protesters, including women, circulated widely on social media.

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Delhi elections: AAP to ask INDIA bloc to remove Congress from alliance

Sanjay Singh said that Ajay Maken reads the BJP script, makes statements at the BJP’s behest, and targets AAP leaders on BJP’s instructions.

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Delhi elections: AAP to ask INDIA bloc to remove Congress from alliance

In a major political tussle in the INDIA bloc, the Aam Aadmi Party today said that it would ask parties in the alliance to remove Congress from the bloc if the grand old party does not act against its Delhi leader Ajay Maken.

Ahead of the assembly elections, Delhi Chief Minister Atishi and AAP’s Rajya Sabha MP Sanjay Singh today accused the Congress of helping the BJP. Sanjay Singh said that the Congress is doing everything to ensure that the BJP benefits in the election. 

He said that Ajay Maken reads the BJP script, makes statements at the BJP’s behest, and targets AAP leaders on BJP’s instructions. He added that on Wednesday, he crossed all limits and called Arvind Kejriwal an anti-nation. The Congress or Ajay Maken have never called any BJP leader in Delhi anti-national, he continued.

This face-off follows months after the AAP and Congress contested the Lok Sabha elections in Delhi in alliance. During the Lok Sabha election, leaders of both parties had campaigned for each other’s candidates. However, the efforts came to naught because the BJP won all seven seats in the capital.

Sanjay Singh said that Arvind Kejriwal had campaigned for Congress candidates in Delhi and Chandigarh too. He further mentioned that AAP repeatedly stands with the Congress on issues in Parliament, and they are calling the AAP leader anti-national, the youth Congress is registering FIR against him.

Sanjay Singh then referred to the Haryana Assembly polls and said the AAP had tried its best to ally with Congress, but the Congress disagreed. AAP fought the election but did not utter an inappropriate word for Congress or its leaders, he said.

The Rajya Sabha MP further said that all limits have been crossed. He stated that the audacity Ajay Maken has shown, demands that the Congress acts against him within 24 hours. Otherwise AAP will approach the partners in the INDIA alliance and seek removal of Congress from the bloc. Furthermore, Chief Minister Atishi said the Congress’s actions and words make it clear that it has tied up with the BJP for the Delhi election. 

Earlier, Delhi Congress released a 12-point white paper targeting the AAP and BJP for mismanagement of pollution, civic facilities and law and order in Delhi. Senior Congress leader Ajay Maken said AAP came to power riding on an anti-corruption movement but has failed to set up a Janlokpal in Delhi. The Congress leader said that if there is one word to describe former Delhi chief minister Arvind Kejriwal here then it would be Farziwal. He further continued that if anyone is the king of fraud in the entire country then it is Kejriwal and that is why they have come here with a white paper on the Kejriwal government and also on the BJP government at the Centre.

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President Murmu, PM Modi condole death of MT Vasudevan Nair

In the wake of his passing, the Kerala government announced official mourning on December 26 and 27 to pay tribute to MT Vasudevan Nair, as stated by the Chief Minister’s Office (CMO).

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President Droupadi Murmu and Prime Minister Narendra Modi expressed their condolences on Thursday for the passing away of the eminent Malayalam literary figure M T Vasudevan Nair.

In a post on social media X, President Murmu said that the literary world has lost a significant voice with Nair’s death. She stated, “With the demise of Shri M T Vasudevan Nair, renowned Malayalam writer, the world of literature has become poorer. Rural India came alive in his writings. He was honoured with major literary awards and made significant contributions to films. He was awarded the Padma Bhushan.”

Furthermore, she extended her heartfelt condolences to Nair’s family and his numerous readers and admirers.

“I convey my heartfelt condolences to the members of his family, and the large number of his readers and admirers,” the post further read.

Prime Minister Modi honored Nair’s legacy, emphasizing that his works, marked by a profound exploration of human emotions, have influenced generations and will inspire many more in the future. Expressing his sorrow, he acknowledged Nair as one of the most respected figures in Malayalam cinema and literature.

“Saddened by the passing away of Shri MT Vasudevan Nair, one of the most respected figures in Malayalam cinema and literature. His works, with their profound exploration of human emotions, have shaped generations and will continue to inspire many more. He also gave voice to the silent and marginalised,” the post read.

“He also gave voice to the silent and marginalised. My thoughts are with his family and admirers. Om Shanti,” Modi stated.

Nair, a distinguished literary figure and Jnanpith Award recipient, passed away on December 25, 2024, at a private hospital due to heart failure, at the age of 91. He also penned essays, short stories, and travelogues, and even took to directing films.

In the wake of his passing, the Kerala government announced official mourning on December 26 and 27 to pay tribute to MT Vasudevan Nair, as stated by the Chief Minister’s Office (CMO).

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