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Reflections on The Supreme Court Liberating Gays And Lesbians

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Reflections on The Supreme Court Liberating Gays And Lesbians

By Saeed Naqvi

Those travelling to England for the first time in the sixties were recipients of a tract from the British High Commission listing the dos and don’ts. Among the don’ts was a paragraph in italics:

“A single woman may invite you to her apartment for tea and refreshments. This must not be taken for license.” That the tract did not warn me about the risks of accepting gentlemen’s hospitality was presumably because Victorianism had not quite faded in the sixties.

In those days the androgynous appeal of Twiggy, the modelling sensation was the big draw. The fashion industry had marketed flat chested girls, looking like boys, as the new sex symbols. The trend had been initiated by the haute couture in Paris. Balenciaga and Givenchy were in love and presumably had copious sex too, as did others in that business. You were a square if you were straight.

If men were going to be so unidirectional, women too were beginning to experience things they called freedom. All generalization are hopelessly inadequate. The freedom was in fact a device to protect self esteem, increasingly bruised by the casual indifference of men. Women’s emancipation clashed headlong with the “femininity” which poetry, thumri, folk songs, love letters had burdened our aesthetics with for centuries.

Motia hiraye gayee, Rama

Kaise dhoon dhoon, (search)

Dhoondat, dhoondat,

baorae gayee, Rama”

(I have lost the pearl, my father’s gift,

O’Rama, how to find it?

I am going mad searching for it.)

The pearl has been lost in a moment of passionate ecstasy.

:Hiraye aanyein kangana

Gaunwaye aanyein jobana

nadia naarey”

“Defiantly, she surrendered her virginity by the riverside. In the sexual ecstasy, she lost her gold bangle.”

This raw ecstasy in the two folk songs is not the stuff of sex today – when urban emancipation conditions sexual behaviour.

Behari Lal Chaube (1595-1663), describes a “devar” husband’s younger brother, a constant in erotic Hindi poetry, throwing a flower playfully on his sister in law.

“Goosebumps of joy appeared on her limbs,

Mistaking them for insect bites

I hastened with a jar of ointment.

But when she smiled I

guessed the truth

and stayed my hand.”

Even Ghalib (1797-1869) puts his urbanity aside in her presence.

“Is nazakat ka bura ho, woh

bhaley hain bhi to kya

Haath aayein to unhein haath

lagaye na baney”

(Though wonderful she be, I hesitate to touch her, such is the delicacy of her form)

Even Josh Malihabadi (1894-1982), proud of his several love affairs, is mesmerized by her shyness.

(Haya ki shama jal uthi

harim e dil rubai mein

Ghumaya sar jhuka ke

der tak kangan kalai mein.”

(When I asked for her hand, her eyes were like shyness illuminated.

For a long while she played with her bangles.”

Raghupati Sahai Firaq Gorakhpuri (1896-1982), describes:

“Woh hai ghuncha, ghuncha jo dekhiye

Woh hai choomiye to dahan dahan.”

(Look at her, and she is a half open bud.

Kiss her and she is all mouth.)

John Keats in his letters could address Fanny Brawne as “My dear girl”. Try the patronizing tone, however steeped in lyric, on the professional MBA you are trying to date and she will hurl a paperweight at you.

Reflections on The Supreme Court Liberating Gays And LesbiansMake allowance for some exaggeration either way, and the truth remains incontrovertible: gender equality has wrenched man-woman equation from romantic traditions which admittedly engendered inequality. When T.S. Elliot’s single woman, after her one night stand,

“paces about her room again, alone

She smoothes her hair with automatic hands,

And puts a record on the gramophone.”

The boredom of it is palpable.

The emancipated, professional woman is light years away from the village belle who lost her pearl during sex. In asserting her gender equality does the contemporary woman cause her partner to feel inadequate and begin to withdraw from women for emotional security? In brief, the belle who lost the pearl is more relaxing; the emancipated woman, more challenging.

Freudian complexities which attend evolving man-woman equation causes some of the youth of both sexes to find greater comfort, relaxation and friendship in seeking out persons of their own sex for all purpose relationships. The withdrawal of men from the market causes women to move in the other direction.

This sociologically conditioned augmentation of the LGBT community is only a fraction of those who are gay or heterosexual for hormonal reasons.

Social reasons for this increase will cause the stream to join the torrent, a function of many streams, which could lead to unsettling demographic changes. That is possibly the most frightening consequence of the issue the Supreme Court addressed in a historic judgement.

The judgement brings out of the purdah that which was hidden. Does a whole body of poetry on that which was behind the curtain become kosher too? It is great poetry from Chaucer and Iqbal to Jaffar Zatalli, Chirkeen, Rafi Ahmad Khan, Mahshar Enayati, Abba Changezi, Uriyan Hyderabadi. Do we have their Lordship’s permission to bring it all out in the open?

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PM Modi says every noble attempt for peace with Pakistan met with hostility, betrayal

Modi also expressed empathy for the people of Pakistan, stating that they too must yearn for peace, tired of living amidst strife, unrest, and relentless terror.

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Prime Minister Narendra Modi, in a candid podcast with Lex Fridman released on Sunday, March 16, expressed his disappointment over Pakistan’s response to India’s peace initiatives, stating that every attempt to improve bilateral ties was met with hostility and betrayal. He expressed hope that wisdom would prevail among Pakistan’s leadership to choose the path of peace.

Recalling his early efforts to mend relations, Modi mentioned inviting then-Pakistani Prime Minister Nawaz Sharif to his swearing-in ceremony in 2014 as a gesture of goodwill. “It was a diplomatic gesture unlike any in decades. Even those who questioned my foreign policy approach were surprised. Our former President Pranab Mukherjee beautifully captured this historic moment in his memoir,” Modi said.

However, he lamented that the desired outcome was not achieved. “Every noble attempt at fostering peace was met with hostility and betrayal. We sincerely hope that wisdom prevails upon them, and they choose the path of peace,” he added. Modi also expressed empathy for the people of Pakistan, stating that they too must yearn for peace, tired of living amidst strife, unrest, and relentless terror.

On U.S.-India relations and President Trump

Modi also spoke about his strong bond with U.S. President Donald Trump, describing him as a leader who prioritizes national interests, much like himself. He praised Trump’s courage and decisiveness, recalling how the U.S. President sat among the audience during the ‘Howdy Modi’ event in Houston in 2019 while Modi addressed the crowd.

“That was his humility. The President of the United States sitting in the audience while I spoke from the stage—it was a remarkable gesture,” Modi said. He also shared a memorable moment when Trump agreed to walk through the packed stadium to greet the audience, despite concerns from his security team. “His entire security detail was thrown off guard, but that moment showed his courage and trust in me. It was a testament to the strong bond between us,” Modi added.

Reflecting on Trump’s resilience, Modi highlighted the U.S. President’s dedication to his country, even after being shot during the election campaign last year. “Even after being shot, he remained unwavering in his commitment to America. His ‘America First’ spirit resonates with my ‘India First’ approach. That’s why we connect so well,” Modi said.

He also commended Trump’s preparedness in his second term, noting that the U.S. President has a clear roadmap and a capable team to implement his vision. Modi mentioned meeting key members of Trump’s administration, including Vice President J.D. Vance, Director of National Intelligence Tulsi Gabbard, entrepreneur Vivek Ramaswamy, and tech mogul Elon Musk.

Modi emphasized that politicians are often perceived through the lens of media coverage, which can create misunderstandings. “People rarely get the chance to truly meet or personally know one another. Perhaps third-party intervention is the real cause of tensions,” he said, advocating for direct engagement and mutual understanding among global leaders.

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Tom Cruise and Ana de Armas spotted together again, reigniting dating rumors

Tom Cruise and Ana de Armas were seen together for the second time in London, adding fuel to ongoing romance speculation. The Hollywood stars have yet to address the dating rumors.

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Hollywood actors Tom Cruise and Ana de Armas have once again sparked romance rumors after being seen together in London. The duo was spotted arriving at the London Heliport on the evening of March 14, marking their second public outing in recent weeks.

According to reports, the two actors appeared relaxed and comfortable in casual attire, engaging in lively conversations and laughter with the heliport staff. Their recent joint appearances have intensified speculation about a possible romantic relationship.

Tom and Ana’s growing closeness

The romance rumors initially began circulating over Valentine’s Day weekend last month when Tom and Ana were first photographed together. The duo was seen walking through London’s Soho neighborhood, with Ana carrying takeout food. They also stopped to interact with fans and pose for photographs, further fueling dating speculations.

Neither Tom, who has been filming a movie in England directed by Alejandro G. Iñárritu, nor Ana have addressed these rumors. In a recent encounter with Spanish media in Madrid, Ana declined to comment when asked whether her outing with Tom was personal or work-related.

Past relationships and media interest

Ana de Armas has been linked to Tinder executive Paul Boukadakis in 2023 and previously dated actor Ben Affleck from 2020 to 2021. Tom Cruise, on the other hand, has maintained a relatively private personal life in recent years.

As of now, representatives for both actors have not responded to requests for comments on their relationship status. However, their recent outings together continue to keep fans and media buzzing with speculation.

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BJP appoints district presidents for UP’s 68 district, check names here, CM Yogi Adityanath extends congratulations

BJP has released the list of new district presidents for 68 districts in Uttar Pradesh. Chief Minister Yogi Adityanath congratulated the appointees.

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After nearly two months of internal deliberations, the Bharatiya Janata Party (BJP) has announced the names of its district and metropolitan presidents in Uttar Pradesh. The declaration, made by district election officers, marks a shift from the traditional practice of releasing a consolidated list from Lucknow. The appointments coincide with the BJP’s statewide “Organisation Festival 2025” celebrations.

Key appointments in major cities

In Lucknow, Anand Dwivedi has been appointed as the new Metropolitan President, while Vijay Maurya takes over as District President. Rajkumar Gupta has been named as Metropolitan President in Agra, with Prashant Poonia appointed as the District President. Meanwhile, Akash Pal has been reappointed as District President in Moradabad, and Girish Bhandula, a textile trader, will serve as Metropolitan President.

Chief Minister Yogi Adityanath extends congratulations

Uttar Pradesh Chief Minister Yogi Adityanath congratulated the newly appointed BJP office-bearers on social media. In a post on X (formerly Twitter), he expressed confidence in their ability to strengthen the party’s organisation and contribute to Prime Minister Narendra Modi’s vision of security and good governance in the state.

Full list of newly appointed BJP district and metropolitan presidents in UP

So far, 68 out of 98 organisational districts have received new appointments, with the remaining positions expected to be announced soon.

District-wise BJP presidents in Uttar Pradesh:

Bulandshahr: Vikas Chauhan (Repeat)

Etawah: Annu Gupta

Ghazipur: Om Prakash Rai

Lalitpur: Harishchandra Rawat

Amethi: Sudhanshu Shukla

Agra (Metropolitan): Rajkumar Gupta

Agra (District): Prashant Poonia

Moradabad (District): Akash Pal (Repeat)

Moradabad (Metropolitan): Girish Bhandula

Kasganj: Neeraj Sharma

Ghaziabad (Metropolitan): Mayank Goyal

Lucknow (District): Vijay Maurya

Maharajganj: Sanjay Pandey

Unnao: Anurag

Raebareli: Buddhi Lal

Noida & Gautam Buddha Nagar (District): Abhishek Sharma

Noida (Metropolitan): Mahesh Chauhan

Lucknow (Metropolitan): Anand Dwivedi

Sonbhadra: Nandlal Gupta

Meerut (Metropolitan): Vivek Rastogi

Gorakhpur (District): Janardan Tiwari

Gorakhpur (Metropolitan): Devesh Srivastava

Azamgarh: Dhruv Singh

Lalganj: Vinod Rajbhar

Basti: Vivekanand Mishra

Bhadohi: Deepak Mishra

Kanpur South: Shivram Singh

Pratapgarh: Ashish Srivastava (Repeat)

Rampur: Harish Gangwar

Mainpuri: Mamta Rajput

Farrukhabad: Fateh Chandra Verma

Mathura (District): Nirbhay Pandey

Mathura (Metropolitan): Raju Yadav

Bahraich: Brajesh Pandey (Repeat)

Sultanpur: Sushil Tripathi

Auraiya: Sarvesh Katheria

Balrampur: Ravi Mishra

Gonda: Amar Kishore Kashyap

Shravasti: Mishri Lal Verma

Kanpur North (Metropolitan): Anil Dixit

Kanpur Dehat: Renuka Sachan

Kanpur Rural: Upendra Nath Paswan

Kannauj: Veer Kumar Singh Bhadauria

Sant Kabir Nagar: Neetu Singh

Maharajganj (Alternate Mention): Ashok alias Sanjay Pandey

Mau: Ramashray Maurya

Ballia: Sanjay Mishra

Prayagraj (Ganga-Paar region): Nirmala Paswan

Prayagraj (Yamuna-Paar region): Rajesh Shukla

Prayagraj (Metropolitan): Sanjay Gupta

Machhlishahr: Ajay Kumar Singh

Mahoba: Mohanlal Kushwaha

Chitrakoot: Mahendra Kotarya

The remaining district presidents will be announced in the coming days.

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